Hello, my darlings! Today, we're diving into the wonderful world of the types of submissives that exists in the lifestyle. So, you say you're a submissive. Someone asks, "What kind?" Well, what do you mean what kind? Honey, you're a submissive is a very broad label. Just as with everything in the BDSM one size never fits all. There are many different types of submissives out there, it can be hard to know which one you are. Don't worry, as always, I got you covered. In this post, we'll explore the many different types of submissives, their roles in a D/s dynamic, and what makes them tick.
Bedroom Submissive
A bedroom submissive is exactly what it sounds like - a submissive who only submits in the bedroom. They may enjoy BDSM activities, but they don't want to be in a 24/7 D/s relationship. They're happy to take on a submissive role during sex, but outside of the bedroom, they're equal partners. It's the perfect role for those who like to keep their kink confined to the boudoir. These subs love to surrender control during intimate moments but maintain their autonomy outside the bedroom. Bedroom submissives thrive on the thrill of giving up power in a sexual context. They might enjoy being tied up, spanked, or verbally dominated, but once the clothes are back on, they're back in the driver's seat of their lives.
Full Service Submissive
A full service submissive, like Moi, is a submissive who takes care of their Dom's every need. They may do chores, cook, clean, and even manage their Dom's schedule. They're happy to serve their Dom in every way possible, both in and out of the bedroom. They offer their submission in various aspects of life. They find joy in serving their Dominant's every need and desire, from dropping to their knees, to dropping a load in the washer. These subs are all about service and obedience. They often have a set of rules and protocols to follow, which can range from how they address their Dom to how they manage their daily routines.
Bottom
A bottom can be a person who enjoys receiving stimulation from another during sexual play. It could be pain, pleasure, or a mix of both. They might not identify as a submissive in the traditional sense but love the physical aspects of BDSM play. Bottoms are often the recipients of impact play, bondage, or other kinky activities. While they may not seek to serve or obey, they crave the physical sensations alone that come with submission.
A brat is a type of submissive who loves to push boundaries and test limits. Bratty subs are the mischievous, and like pushing their Dom's buttons. They may be a bit mouthy or disobedient, but they're just trying to get a reaction from their Dom. This kind of submission is usually discussed beforehand, and their Dom extends to them a certain amount of leeway. They love to test their Dominant's limits by misbehaving, only to be disciplined in the most delightful ways.Brats are playful and smart mouthed, often engaging in power struggles with their Dom. They might roll their eyes, talk back, or playfully disobey, all in the hopes of earning a spanking or some form of correction.
Littles are submissives who embrace a younger persona, often referred to as age play. They find comfort and joy in expressing a more innocent, carefree side of themselves. Littles often need guidance and care from their Dom, and they may enjoy activities like being spanked or scolded. Littles may have a "little space" where they can color, watch cartoons, or engage in other activities that make them feel young and free. Their Caregiver/Dominant provides guidance, protection, and discipline in a nurturing and loving way.
Age Play Sub
An age play sub is similar to a little, but they may not necessarily identify as a younger person. This is more of a temporary involvement. They regress to a younger age mentally and emotionally. This can be a way to escape the stresses and responsibilities of the adult world for a little while and indulge in feelings of innocence, playfulness and vulnerability. They may enjoy activities like being dressed up as a baby or a teenager.
Masochist
A masochist is a type of submissive that gets pleasure from pain. Whether its physical pain, humiliation, degradation, bondage or a combination of all. In the masochists world pain equals pleasure. As a masochist myself, I can say that the pain is a form of release akin to an actual physical orgasm. In times of stress, I have looked to pain to clear my mind and take the place of the stressor by focusing completely on the sensation. It's therapeutic to the masochist.
SAMS
SAMS stands for "Smart-Ass Masochist." A SAMS is a submissive who loves to push boundaries and test limits, but they also love to receive pain and sensation. They may be a bit mouthy or disobedient, but they're just trying to get a reaction from their Dom.
Pain Slut
A pain slut is a submissive who loves to receive pain and sensation. They may enjoy activities like whipping, caning, or cutting, and they're happy to take on a submissive role while doing a scene.
Slave
A slave is a submissive who has given up all control to their Dom. They may do chores, cook, clean, and even manage their Dom's schedule, but they have no autonomy or agency. Slaves often need a firm hand and clear boundaries, or they may feel lost or confused.
Pet
A pet is a submissive who takes on an animal role such as a puppy, kitten, or pony, in a D/s dynamic. They may enjoy activities like being collared, leashed, or trained, and eating/drinking from a pet bowl. Their human voice might be replaced with barks or meows. A pet's idea of fun may include being chained to the furniture, playing with pet toys and laying at Masters This role allows them to explore a more primal and carefree side of themselves. Their Owner/Dominant provides care, training, and affection, much like a pet owner.
Bondage enthusiast aka a rope bunny:
A bondage enthusiast is a submissive who loves to be tied up and restrained. They may enjoy activities like rope bondage or leather bondage.
Other Types of Submissives
Financial Submissives: Find pleasure in giving their financial resources to their Dominant as a form of submission.
Mental Submissives: Enjoy the psychological aspects of submission, such as humiliation, objectification, or being controlled through mind games.
Spiritual Submissives: Integrate their submission into their spiritual or religious practices, often finding a deeper connection with their beliefs through their dynamic.
Finding Your Submissive Identity
Reflect on your desires and fantasies. What aspects of submission turn you on the most? Experiment with different roles and dynamics in a safe and consensual environment. Communicate openly with potential Dominants about your interests and boundaries. Attend workshops, munches, or BDSM events to learn more about the different types of submission.
Remember that these are just a few types of submission. There are many and your submissive identity can be fluid and may evolve over time. Most submissives cross the lines and labels of what define a particular type. A pet can have slave tendences. A brat can embrace her pain slut side. I, myself, am a mix of full-service sub, masochist and in the last decade, discovered a bit of a little side of me that I never knew existed. We are not all cookie cutters. We are unique and interchangeable, and as our experiences grow, so does our submission. Whether you're a bedroom submissive, a full service submissive, or a pain slut, there's a place for you in the world of BDSM.
In conclusion, the world of submission is as diverse as the people who inhabit it. Whether you're a bedroom submissive, a brat, a pet, or anything in between, there's a place for you in the BDSM community. Embrace your kinks, explore your limits, and always prioritize consent, communication, and safety. Now go forth and submit, my kinky comrades! And remember, whatever role you play, own it with confidence and sexiness.
Stay kinky, stay safe, and most importantly, stay true to yourself. Until next time, keep those handcuffs handy and your mind open to all the delicious possibilities of submissionđź’‹
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